By The Way...

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This blog can be interactive.  You all can leave comments or questions at the bottom of each blog post.  I know you stay awake at night anxiously awaiting each of my posts, but I'm not the only one who has to do the talking :)  Sometimes I bore myself, so you can keep it interesting by telling me what you want to hear me talk about.  Or you can give us advice.  We love advice.  Right now we're winging it, so any help is good help.    

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